Whom do we want as judge?

So in the end it comes down to who we want our judge to be. We don’t want to be judged by other people, and we don’t want to be judged by God, so that leaves ourselves. Down where it really counts, we want to be our own judge. We want to be in charge of evaluating ourselves. We want to be able to sing with Frank Sinatra, “I did it my way.”—Fleming Rutledge, The Crucifixion, 317